Transsexual tgirl shemale ladyboy learn lgbt lingo

Transsexaul tgirl shemale ladyboy learn lgbt lingo

Have you been looking for your T-girl princess but without success yet? Maybe you are underrating how important is knowing the LGBT lingo and the differences between terms such as Transsexual, Tgirl, shemale, ladyboy, trannie, transgender and more… It can be very messy and cause unpleasing situations if you wrongly addressing the girl you are chatting to. No worries is not that complicated, and I guarantee you that learning a bit the LGBT lingo can improve a lot your dating chances. Especially if you are dating westerner transsexuals (more of that in a bit).

Let’s assume that you are moved by good intentions, know how to treat a girl, then, improving your LGBT knowledge it will also add a bit more charm on you. How is that? 

Typically, many straight men who feels attracted to trans women know nothing about LGBT community. Most men, from the teen to the mature, only know that they want to date a beautiful and sexy TS and possibly become her future boyfriend. But dating trans women is not exactly as dating Genetic Females. And you may end up to pass as the typical Trannie Chaser even if you are doing your best to prove yourself differently. The so-called “tranny-chaser” is the type of guy that most decent T-girls wants to AVOID! ( which I intend to dedicate an exclusive post for that topic)

With this blog post, I wish to give some insights to men, extending the topic further at the end. All of it based on my personal observations, and experiences.

Let’s start with some example first

LGBT lingo: problems among straight men and trans women

If there is something that often makes trans-oriented men and even trans women confused, is the improper knowledge of LGBT dictionary. You will be amazed at times seeing people debating about it. Just join some social group for transgender and blogs, it will happen not so rare, that you get rejected because of that when talking to a Tgirl. You may have the best intentions and be serious, but people will label you wrongly right away if you commit the typical newbie mistakes.

Straight men meet transsexual women

I know that most of you guys are straight (so I am), and this world to you is probably unknown yet. Because I’ve been there too, and with time I learned that communication is crucial when it comes to date transsexual girls. Even more, if you are doing it on the internet on transgender dating sites. Then I save the hope that my bits of advice will help you out to avoid the mistakes I did in the past. And most important, to find the right girlfriend, or boyfriend if you are trans girl yourself.

Different type of t-girls and many reactions

My current ts girlfriend is a Filipina ladyboy, and I never had significant problems of communication with her. Right because, today, I’m a person well-informed, experienced, and I like to keep myself up to date on matters related to LGBT community. However, I feel lucky to have a girlfriend that doesn’t give too much importance for such small (?) details. But I also know that she appreciate me a lot for this fact, and I never called her in any offensive ways I didn’t mean to.

On the other hand, some girls really do care, and can’t tolerate being WRONG addressed or that you touch some topics related to her Transition. Like it or not, my dear trans lover, you will surely meet such girls. And chance is that you will get suddenly turned off from her or instantly ignored if you commit the mistakes that I will list down below in this post. The most common, that often happens during your first encounter or chat with a transsexual woman.


Let’s go now with something very practical, and see you on the second part after the video 😉 Once again we stay in company with Maki Gingoyon, a transgender woman, and trans advocate. She has something important to tell you.

Transsexual Tgirl Shemale Ladyboy learn the LGBT lingo

Here is a short guide to learn the meaning of transsexual, tgirl, shemale, ladyboys and most common words employed in LGBT language. With useful advises for how to address properly a transsexual woman

If you watched the video and read my introduction, you are now aware of these issues.

We all have a different point of view and reactions on certain topics. My experience taught me that self-control is essential in most situations in life. Though is not always such simple to apply! One lesson that is a bit difficult to learn when you are looking for your future lifetime partner is… Learning to don’t generalize and falling into stereotypes. As I mentioned earlier, some people are less or more tolerating on particular matters. And some have the tendency to judge you right away.

May sound banal but, we should learn to get to know well enough the person before to jump at any conclusion too soon. In the bad or good!

Why are transsexual girls so sensitive about this?

Even though some countries are becoming more open-minded and tolerating recent years; trans women are still victims of discriminations and often stereotyped as sex workers. Then, I advise you to avoid introducing too early the sex topic. Why? I wrote something about it on my Asian transsexual blog. And even if mainly addressed to ladyboys from Asia, some issues are very common also in the west society; where I would say, the situation is, even more complicated. There are many different reasons that you can’t know yet, which are determining her bad reactions. It takes time and patience to understand.

Additional dating tips – Know a bit of the hardship of being trans woman

Going back on the main topic, for example, there are girls out there who don’t want to remember anything about their past as boy and leave it buried. That’s a case more common for transsexuals post-op. If that’s the case, Then, one thing you should try to avoid is asking what was her male name before she changed it into a female.

Of course, this is very subjective, while some girls may tell you spontaneous without feeling hurt. Often, westerner trans girls are those who pay more attentions to these things, but also Asian do! For some t-girls can be traumatic talking about her past, because it brings up memories that she doesn’t want to speak for many reasons. Stories of her past that you can know and understand only being with her for a long time enough. Eventually, I will share with you some more personal experience in another blog post…

How to avoid to hurt your transexual girlfriend?

You know it takes some time to understand and know well a person. Especially on what these girls have been trough during their life. The best advice I can give you, for now, is: always use tact and try to keep always quiet. Especially when your transsexual girlfriend is still in HRT ( transition with female hormones ), which makes her moody. Hormones could make her sometimes sad or mad for no real reason. Be cautious until you get confidence enough with each other. Don’t ask too soon many personal details about her transition and past. Just wait that she open herself to you.

To sum it up, there is not a right recipe, but you can always learn and increase your chance of success. If you apply some common sense and keep informed, you’ll not have significant issues.

Conclusion

Nowadays human relations, and especially love matters, are becoming more sophisticated compared to past centuries. We keep evolving, and the world is always changing. There are universal rules that apply to every love story, as well with transex girls. But of course, there are exceptions and unique situations when men and trans women want to meet. That’s why, being well-informed about issues, particularity, is very mandatory. And in the most cases, constructive and constant communication are always the KEY solution. Both in real life, but even more in the virtual world.

There are many other things you should take into consideration. What you got now is just the ABC you should know when you are attracted to transwomen, and looking for a serious long-term relationship. And even for a simple date!

And you ? have you had your first date? Have you been in a love relationship with an exceptional woman? What can you tell? How was your experience? Feel free to leave a comment, or if you like write me an email 🙂

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Andrea

Andrea Del Riva, Italian man, 39 years, digital nomad, trans oriented man, I stand for transgender right. I love Asia and my sweet ladyboy girlfriend. Im the author of this website and other blogs related to transsexual dating. I’m the author of third gender blog dedicated to Asian t-girls at Ladyboy Travel Date . I also collaborate with: Transsexual Date Online project.

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  2. I have recently realized that i am attracted solely to trans women. I have subscribed to your newsletter in order to better understand what being with a trans woman is all about so as not to mess this up because this is a serious matter to me. I appreciate all you are doing to help ppl like me out. If you have any advice you can offer I would really appreciate it.

    • Glad to hear my blog is helping you out, Joseph. About the newsletter, recently I’ve been pretty busy in real life, but surely though, I’ll keep updating my blog. All I need is some free time. Got some drafts that I”’ hopefully post next weeks, I’ll be glad to read your comments and feedback! Thanks 🙂

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